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We Cannot Sleep Peacefully
Lisa Hendey |
Catholic girlfriend, Lisa Hendey received a wake up call and shares it with us...
It was Pope Francis, tweeting again in the middle of the night. I have my Twitter account set to text me when the Holy Father tweets. He has a tendency to do so in what equates to the early morning hours here in Fresno. Typically I wake up, read his tweet, whisper a quick prayer, and roll back over and go to sleep. I’m a disgustingly great sleeper… I can fall asleep in less than a minute when I go to bed at night. I’ll choose sleep over just about any other luxury, including chocolate.
So imagine my reaction to this text, with these words. “We cannot sleep peacefully…”
Oh my.
Quite the wake up call.
I’ve been pondering Pope Francis’ tweet since then, trying to figure out how — for me — it is a personal call to action. This is not a call to drop an extra buck in the basket on Sunday at Mass and merrily go about my way. This is not a chance for me to think, “I give to Catholic causes xyz and abc…” and consider myself exempt.
It’s also not Pope Francis calling me to pack up my stuff, leave my family, jump on a plane, and go feed orphans half a world away.
We cannot sleep peacefully…
In fact, I don’t have to go looking very far to find babies who are hungry or elderly who are without medical assistance:
In 2012, the University of California, Los Angeles – Center for Health Policy Research identified that approximately 3.8 million individuals were food-insecure within California. The report also identified the San Joaquin Valley as having one of the highest rates of food insecurity within the state. Source
Ironically, this is happening in an agricultural area. There’s a great chance that some of the fruit in your refrigerator was grown in this Valley. Those planting, picking and processing all that food are among the underserved, the hungry, the medically untreated.
The good news is that there are structures in place to respond to many of those needs — but without my support and that of my neighbors, those structures remain understaffed, underfunded and overwhelmed by the daunting tasks they are charged with accomplishing in our community.
We cannot sleep peacefully…
The past few nights, Pope Francis’ call has been ringing in my head, messing with my sleep. His tweet wasn’t a “direct message” to @LisaHendey, but this one is hard to shake off as “Well, that’s a nice tweet…”
So I’m pondering, praying about what my response can be. Not just on the hunger issue, but also on the equally as challenging crisis of how we treat (or ignore) our elderly. One baby step towards that solution might be if each of us simply took more time each day to actively love the elderly in our own lives: our family members, fellow parishioners, and retired priests and religious.
I’ve set myself a mental deadline for turning pondering into a plan of action for this particular challenge from Pope Francis. Until that action plan is in place, I think I’ll be sleeping a little less peacefully.
The grace in this situation is the manpower we can muster, the change that we can bring about when we each wake up, lift a tiny portion of the burden, and commit to action.
We cannot sleep peacefully…
Let’s do this.
A question for you: How are you personally responding to the Church’s call to serve those around you with dignity and love?
~Lisa M. Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com and the bestselling author of The Handbook for Catholic Moms and A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms.
[This post appeared originally at Patheos: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/lisahendey/2013/08/we-cannot-sleep-peacefully/]
[This post appeared originally at Patheos: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/lisahendey/2013/08/we-cannot-sleep-peacefully/]
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Catholic Mom Ponders the Chapel Veil
Pros and Cons of Wearing the Veil
by Gail Buckley, LHS
Gail Buckley, LHS, is the founder and president of Catholic Scripture Study International (www.cssprogram.net ) She also hosts “The Bible Lady” show live every Monday on Radio Maria and as well as a “Bible Lady” segment on The Catholic Connection with Teresa Tomeo on Ave Maria radio. Gail serves on the boards of several Catholic apostolates and is a Lady of the Knights and Ladies of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem, an ancient order under the Papacy. In 2009 Gail had a private audience with Pope Benedict XVI and presented him with a CSS study. To contact Gail, please email info@cssprogram.net
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I had a profound conversion of heart at age 45, which in turn led to my conversion to the Catholic Church. In hindsight, I believe it was the culmination of a journey Mother Mary started me on when I was 15 years old, maybe even younger, but that’s another story for another time.
I grew up as a Methodist in a small southern town where there
were many Protestant churches but only one Catholic Church. There was a
Catholic school adjoining the Church and it was only 2 blocks from my
house. In fact, the Church was on
the corner of the street where my best friend, Carol lived and so when we
visited each other we would walk by the Church. Often we would stop and swing or see-saw on the school
playground.
Even closer to my home, just around the corner, was a
Catholic convent that housed nuns who taught at the Catholic school. This was
in the late 1950’s, before Vatican II when all nuns wore full habits. I often saw the nuns walking to or from
the school and Church and I was always in awe whenever I saw them. I thought they were the holiest people
I’d ever seen. I don’t know why I
thought this because I knew nothing about the Catholic faith but they had a
positive impact on me, even though I never even talked to them. Just the fact
that they wore those habits spoke volumes to me – they were not ashamed of
their faith or their calling. As Jesus said, no one lights a lamp and then puts
it under a bushel basket. They
were letting the light of Christ show through them just by wearing their habits
– they didn’t hide the fact that they were brides of Christ.
It wasn’t just the nuns who captured my attention by their
attire though. I also noticed that
Catholic women and girls wore veils on their heads when they attended
Church. Again, I was very
impressed. Only Catholic girls did
this and this set them apart and that made them special in my mind. I thought it made them appear holy too.
I certainly didn’t have any theological reason for my thinking – just that to
me It just seemed like the right and reverent thing to do when attending the
house of God.
And that brings me to the topic of this article. My husband is also a convert and a few
years ago he started questioning me as to why I didn’t wear a veil. He said, “You’re the “Bible Lady” (my
nickname and name of my radio show) “and in Scripture St. Paul says that women
should cover their heads at Church.”
I replied r, “well, the Church interprets Scripture and the Church
doesn’t require women to wear veils any longer and I follow what the Church
teaches.” After a couple of years
though he started challenging me about it. To my response he’d say, “Well, the Church doesn’t require
you to go to daily Mass but you do, right? And the Church doesn’t require you to pray the Rosary, but
you do that too.” True. “And the Church no longer requires you
to abstain from meat on Fridays except during Lent, yet you abstain every
Friday of the year, correct?” [Editor's note: we are required to do penance on Fridays if we don't abstain from meat during times of the year other than Lent when we are required to abstain.] That’s true too. “And the
Church doesn’t require you to go to confession but once a year but you go on a
regular basis.” Right again. “So, he said, why is it that you don’t
wear a veil?” I didn’t have an answer.
Pros
Wearing a veil shows reverence for Christ and His Church
It gives a good example to others outside the Church
It feels like the right and holy thing to do
It shows my faith - that I’m Catholic
It’s a simple expression of my love for Christ, His Word and
His Church
It’s a very easy way to show the reverence I have for Christ
in the Eucharist.
Cons
I look like a drowned rat with it on my head; not at all
flattering to my appearance
It’s old fashioned and the Church no longer requires it
It’s hard to remember to wear it and it’s not always
convenient
I’m a lector and I’d have to wear it up on the altar where
everyone would see me
People would probably stare at me and make me feel self
conscious
People would think I was trying to appear “holier than thou”
I’d have to buy one and they’re difficult to find and also expensive
I’m invited to speak at Churches – It’d be embarrassing to
have a veil on when giving a talk at a Church.
If I started wearing it, I’d have to do it all the time
As you can see, I had more arguments against wearing the veil
than for it but if you’ll also notice that my arguments against wearing the
veil are all based in pride. It
was obvious to me that I had no good excuses for not wearing the veil and many
good reasons for doing so.
I think wearing a veil at Mass is the LEAST I can do to show
reverence for our Lord in the Blessed
Sacrament. As a Catholic I realize that our outward actions reflect what is in our
hearts. Genuflecting, kneeling, crossing
ourselves, using incense, dipping our fingers into the holy water when entering
and leaving Mass – these are all outward actions that reflect our inward
feelings of reverence, just as wearing a veil does.
We are living in times when there is a lack of respect for our
Lord and His Church. Atheism and
Relativism has become the norm. Many fall away from the faith because they don’t understand it and don’t
see people living their faith. We
need to set examples of reverence for others. Maybe they will be intrigued enough to start looking into
their faith more and come closer to our Lord in doing so.
And you may be surprised to know that faithful Catholic men
like to see women wearing the veil – just as my husband wanted me to do so. I’ve been complimented by many good
Catholic men and priests about wearing the veil. One young priest said to me that he loved looking out at the
congregation and seeing women wearing veils. He felt that it was important to do everything we can to
restore reverence in Church and he
wished that wearing the veil would make a comeback.
I hope women who are reading this article will give this
simple act of reverence more consideration. Think about it -
what are your reasons for NOT doing so?
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